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Throughout history there have been millions of people who have been called a leader to the point that the title has lost value. Why? Because when you take the time to read some of their biographies there is no sign of leadership qualities in their existence on Earth. Today, youth are confused over what makes a true leader versus a fraud because they believe that a person who can excite a crowd with eloquent words is a leader but they are gravely mistaken. External dress attire is not the key nor is it the amount of money in oneâ€™s pocket.
Bookstores are filled to the roof with books on leadership, management and influence but one critical element excluded from most best-sellers isÂ service.
Contrary to popular belief, the true measure of a leader is based upon how well that person serves other people and not themselves. Imagine going to a restaurant and you see spots on your fork, dirt in your water, soil on your napkin and the food taste horrible. Then you politely ask the waiter to correct your issues and he or she tells you â€œThatâ€™s not my problem!â€ How would you feel? Would you go back to that restaurant? Would you recommend it to your friends? Of course not, because you have high expectations of service.
Letâ€™s flip this scenario.
What if you went into that same restaurant and started giving the waiter a hard time. You complain about any little thing but all the waiter kept replying was â€˜Yes sir. I will handle that for youâ€™. How would you feel then? You would probably feel awful because the pleasantness of that waiter overpowered your arrogance.Â Service is the key element to be a leader.
Whether you are the high school football captain, the head cheerleader, the college student body president, or sitting at the helm of a major corporation, you can not call yourself a leader if it is not rooted in serving the people whom you claim to lead.
There are no born leaders but they are developed. The acquisition of knowledge is a never ending life journey so one great writer said â€œevery time I meet someone he or she is my superior in some way,â€ meaning there is always someone under you that can teach you something because we are all uniquely created. There are no two raindrops, snowflakes or blades of grace made alike hence all human beings have inner qualities that we can all absorb energy from like a covalent bond.
Service is defined as a contribution to the welfare of others, the work performed by one who serves and a helpful act. You canâ€™t be a servant if you think you are better than the next man or judgmental toward people based upon their lack of material possessions.
Leaders of a business go into the trenches with their employees to make sure they are meeting their needs so they can produce for the company. A head coach knows how to bring out the best in his players to create championships teams.